As you would have probably guessed, most men try to get and many girls as they can before they go out into the corporate world. With all the events that are happening in nearly all of the college campuses, it bring a huge opportunity to meet someone who you may be interested in.
Always remember college parties are just that, parties! If you meet a girl there, don't fall in love too quick. Most girls personalities are not real when they are drunk, so you have to see how they are once they sober up.
Always remember that there will be stress. Why? Because you are in school, one of the hardest things to finish. It is almost impossible not to argue in this stressful scenery.
Always try to check out different campuses. Just because there are a lot of girls where you are doesn't mean there aren't anywhere else. There are thousands all around you!
Always be careful when trying to be a pimp. I have seen this many times. A guy tried to date 2 girls on the same campus, it can get pretty embarrassing.
Never get involved with an annoying girl who is crying for attention. You have enough stress with school, don't add her to the list.
Never date your professor no matter how hot she may be. Do you want to get her fired for that? I don't think so, what you do after graduation is your business though.
Never date someone who is in the same dorm or living facility. By doing this, you are going to make your business, everyone else's also. Things can get ugly...fast.
Just start following some of these do's and dont's and I am sure you will find meeting girls in college a pretty cool experience.
Meeting girls online can be a very fun and interesting. I have seen many guys just stay glued to the computer and battle with how many girls they can manage to hook-up a date with. This is obviously a big industry that will be staying around for a long time to come. It's great to see people who would never get the courage to go up to a woman face to face but send messages online like they have all the courage in the world.
But as we all know, with every good there is a bad. It seems like someone has to come and ruin the fun. You shouldn't let this ruin yours though so here are some tips to stay safe with the pursuit in your online dating efforts.
Tip #1-Don't Open Your Wallet For Scammers
I have seen many profiles from girls that have business links on their page for you to buy there product. This obviously shows that they do not have an interest in you but more on that green stuff in your wallet. You should stay as far away from these profiles as you can.
Tip #2-The Fake Profile Lure
The reason I call this the fake profile lure is because that is exactly what it is! They lure you into clicking a link that will bring you to another page. What they aren't telling you is that if you click that link, there is a good chance your account information will be stolen. From there, they will try to try spam your friends profiles. It can turn into a pretty ugly scene.
Tip#3-Stop Getting So Personal So Quick
Remember this is the internet! You do not know the person well at all. There is still time to build that trust and it may take weeks or months to gain complete trust between the two of you. Telling them everything and everything is just a silly and yet common mistake.
Tip #4- Personality Interest
Ok guys, if you're messaging a girl and everything you're saying seems to be working, there may be a problem. If it seems like something may be fishy, it most likely is. This may go under a fake profile category so you need to watch out for these.
Tip #5- The Meet Up
It's quite simple, meet in a common place where there will be people also. I strongly suggest you don't meet in your or their house on the very first meeting. Why not go out for a movie or to eat? Anywhere public that's surrounded by other people!
By following these tips, your experience with meeting people on the internet will be great and fun!
Here's a simple exercise that will increase your confidence because we all know that's what it is all about.
Here's the biggest and largest problem with men. They fear rejection, and thus will never like to get rejected by a woman. It is scarier than death itself, so most chose to go far away from it. I have learned that a way to break away from that fear is to slowly build up your self confidence. This is not an easy task and will not be done over night. In order to build this up, you must make a list of things you have been victorious in.
Get a notebook to jot down your notes and as the days go by, begin to list things that you have accomplished.
Whether it is getting an A on a test, fixing your broken car, accomplishing something at work, just jot it down! Affirming these accomplishments to yourself will change your belief in yourself which is the most important thing. You will thus begin to believe in yourself, in turn, your confidence will begin to increase. It is also important that you read your notebook every night, to en grain it into your mind and also when you are feeling down. Negative energy is the last thing you need with this exercise.
There you have it. It's pretty strait forward and simple but effective. You will slowly begin to see your self confidence rise and your ability to believe in yourself, thus finding it rather simple to have faith in yourself when trying to get a girl.
So you might be thinking what can you do to pick up girls even if you short? First off, nothing is going to work without building some confidence. You really have to work on this because no other tip in the world will work if you don't hammer this in your head. Also, wearing a some nice boots never hurt a short guy. They can give you an extra 2-3 inches easy. Also, try to wear darker and tighter cloths. By doing so, your appearance will look more sleek and slender, which in turn will make you look taller.
If you're short and don't like to work out, there's a problem. You see, since your body is more compact you will have a better appearance if you have some muscle under those cloths. Most girls will notice this off that bat and it will also show that you are hardworking and care about yourself.
I slightly mentioned confidence but if you haven't noticed a lot of small guys seem to be the loudest of them all. I wouldn't advise you to be a jerk, but definitely get that extra edge in your head. Don't wish you were taller and look at other people in envy. Enjoy what you have, and use it to the best of your abilities.
So in order to get over this "short" excuse you have to build confidence and be happy with who you are. Getting to them gym will only help and use some of the fashion tips I mentioned. Remember there's a lot of short guys hooking up with gorgeous women. There's no reason you shouldn't be one of them.
There are so many ways to attack the subject, but I will focus on your profile picture here. It is one the most important details in your online dating success. Yet, most people tend to over look it. Here's the reason why. Humans do not like looking at themselves in pictures because we are by nature able to notice our imperfections. We rather not look at it and just throw it up on the net. By doing this you will be making a huge mistake.
Do you know how many times I have seen a guy take a picture with a camera phone? And I don't mean a good quality one either, it's one that looks horrible. Let me tell you this, your chances just went from 99% failure to 99.9% by making this mistake.
First off, a girl will not take you serious if you take a picture with your camera phone. Also, it sounds childish, but please smile in your picture. Ever since we've been children, we have been told to say "cheese"! Same goes for your picture you put up to attract girls.
I won't recommend putting up a picture of your ex and yourself, just cropping her out of the photo. In most cases this is noticeable due to where her hand or cheek may be in the picture. That's a big..no no! I advise you to use a recent photo. Putting a photo from years before when you were in the best shape of your life will ultimately come back to get you. Be happy with the way you look now.
Last but not least, keep your shirt on guys. Stop with the half naked pictures. If you have muscles, put on a shirt that will complement it. Don't just take it all off to fast. That may be your overall goal but don't rush it. A girl doesn't want to chat with a guy who is already underdressed before the first message is sent!
Hey I am on the run, but I wanted to put some tips fast you could use to get girls to like you. Enjoy!
Tip #1- Maintain Strong Eye Contact
Nothing is worse than talking to a girl but looking at the floor the whole time. If you do this, I promise you, she will not think it is cute. She will not be attracted to you, and you will not end up hooking up with this girl. Why? You have no self confidence. You are acting as she is going to kill you if you say the wrong thing. If you approach this with a more humorous attitude and take it as a game or learning experience, fear will not be holding you back. Just remember to not turn strong eye contact into the war of the eyeballs, because then that's weird. Always look away occasionally.
Tip #2- Your Voice Expresses Who You Are
Ever saw a real big guy have the puniest voice? Did you honestly just feel like laughing? Most of the time you do, and so do girls. Make sure you always speak up and show some authority. Not because you are a male, but to show that you are up for the challenge and you appreciate her taking the time to stop and talk to you.
Tip #3- Use Your Teeth
No, just don't go in for the kiss! I mean smile. It is the best icebreaker. It shows your compassionate side and allows a female to get closer to you. The mean guy face is not cutting it anymore!
